Stopping drinking for the second (and third) time

I’ve touched on the topic of drinking before and many people that know me also know that I...

C-ptsd and me – How the pandemic helped me tune into how tuned out (and triggered) I was

CW: C-ptsd, alcoholism, parenting, conflict, trauma, menstruation As someone who has actively avoided all of the “The silver...

Let’s talk about sex. Because we don’t, do we? Not really. Not fully, authentically and honestly. I know...

“But what do you tell your children?” “I tell them the truth – I tell them that Mummy...

I am a parent to two young children, both of whom are now pre-teen age. As they get...

I read two books in April that both communicated very negative messages about BDSM (Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sadism and...

I have been invited to take part in a panel discussion about open and monogamous relationships. The event...

There was a Kickstarter doing the rounds on social media last week. It’s called LOVESYNC and it’s an...

Recently I have been thinking a lot about pleasure. I have noticed how hard I find it hard...