Recently I have been thinking a lot about pleasure. I have noticed how hard I find it hard...

The Strictly “curse” strikes again and yet, this time, it feels different. There feels like a very real gap between...

I can still see those first images. The first D/s* images I EVER saw. He had said: you...

There are many different starting points for the journey into your own landscapes of desire and, hopefully, the...

Some of the most powerful scenes in my first book (Appetite) are also the scenes hardly anyone talks about....

A shorter version of this piece appeared in The Sun on September 8th 2018 https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/7205339/polyamorous-relationships-sex-… Every relationship, even...

The question that most people ask, when they learn that a person is exploring a non-monogamous or polyamorous...

A post from 2016 by The School of Life is making the rounds again and, having watched it,...

I recently had a wonderful conversation with writer and traveller, Christine Wild, about desire and conscious relationships, here...