Someone you know is (still) kinky (and even more so than before)

On December 1st, I published a short story called Bulletproof as well as a collection of five short stories. Both are...

Midlife mayhem and magic – thoughts and dreams for everyone

Midlife (by which I mean your 40s and 50s) is a magic- and mayhem-filled time of change and...

Commitment is a marker for many long-term relationships and is often something we also crave or need from...

—Can we go to the crystals shop? —I’m sorry, I can’t do that with you right now. I...

Many people think about non-monogamy or poly in terms of numbers: numbers of partners, play friends, lovers. This...

When it comes to relationships, what we want might be at odds with what we need. And, when...

Many of us become more interested in dying and death as we age because, in a way, that’s...

Navigating shifts in feeling intensity This is part of a series of pieces on conscious relating. Other forthcoming...

This is part of a series on conscious relating. Other pieces are on endings, de-escalation and pauses. Conscious...