We seek to know ourselves through relationships. We have to. We are mammals who, as babies, are extraordinarily...

I’ve touched on the topic of drinking before and many people that know me also know that I...

CW: menstruation, adolescence, trauma, c-ptsd, mention but no detail of abusive behaviour As part of a recent period...

This post was inspired by the watching of IT Chapter 2 and by the re-reading of the Stephen...

Recently I have been thinking a lot about pleasure. I have noticed how hard I find it hard...

One of the things I have been called many times is “selfish”. A lot of the time that...

I should eat better… I should go to the gym… I should watch less TV… I should get...

Attention and patience: the two things that we find hard, or are reluctant, to give but which we...

One thing that often gets missed, in all the drama around the changes I have gone through in...