Discussing conscious relationships on BBC Five Live

I contributed, with Andrea, to a converation on BBC Five Live about conscious relationships earlier in April. The...

How to stop protecting other people’s feelings*

In pondering polyamory and my journey so far, it occurred to me that almost all the problems I...

Clear your plate? Don’t be so greedy! This will make you feel better… Enjoy… You deserve it… Don’t...

I turn 42 today and, as a huge Douglas Adams fan, the parallels between my age and Deep Thought’s...

Look around you… what do you see? There is something there that is so pervasive and present that...

In which Lori Beth and I talk about my formative relationship with sex, how that shaped my 20s...

I write a lot about sex in my novel Appetite but I never mention consent. Not writing about consent was...

Even the more nuanced debates around food are too simplistic. There are comfortably off people who live on...

I have been lucky enough to be part of a writing group for nearly five years and they...