Who is in your bedroom right now?

It has been over three years since the Ashley Madison hacking scandal and, with social media increasingly cited as a...

What my son eating (or not eating) broccoli has to do with sex: thoughts on food, sex, pleasure and society

Recently I have been thinking a lot about pleasure. I have noticed how hard I find it hard...

One of the things I have been called many times is “selfish”. A lot of the time that...

I should eat better… I should go to the gym… I should watch less TV… I should get...

Attention and patience: the two things that we find hard, or are reluctant, to give but which we...

The Strictly “curse” strikes again and yet, this time, it feels different. There feels like a very real gap between...

It is so easy to focus on the HARD aspects of change that I wanted to take a...

I can still see those first images. The first D/s* images I EVER saw. He had said: you...

There are many different starting points for the journey into your own landscapes of desire and, hopefully, the...